Have you ever been scammed?
I've been receiving an alarming number of scam emails lately, and I'm getting really frustrated! Thankfully, I never fell into their traps. But today, I'll share with you the most frightening experience that I had to deal with because of dishonest and vile people. The worst part? It happened in real life, not online. I was also too young to understand what the hell was going on.
I think I was in 3rd grade when this happened. One saturday afternoon, my parents took my siblings to the hospital because both of them have very high fevers. I was left in the house with our maids/nannies, and I remember just lying in bed whilst watching Bugs Bunny.
Then I heard a knock, it was one of our maids. She looked very distressed and frightened, but at that time, I thought she was just having a really bad day. She asked me if I knew the code to our vault, and I said I don't (I really don't, my parents were so secretive about it, they would not even let us peek!)
She begged me to tell her, tears were already streaming down her face so I told her again that I honestly have no idea how to open it. She left the room, went down, and came back with a hammer. Yup, that's right. She hammered the vault but still no luck, the lock wouldn't budge.
The phone rang, I didn't know who called but whoever it was, he scared the shit out of our maid. That person was trying to tell our maid that "she didn't have much time and that she needs to get the cash right away"
Our poor maid spent hours trying to hammer down the vault, and there I was, just staring helplessly at her because she wouldn't tell me what was happening.
My family finally came home and I was just so relieved that someone can finally explain to me what's going on. Our maid, on the other hand, could not believe what she was seeing.
Apparently, the caller pretended to be our family lawyer and told her that my family got into a car accident. That my brother's critical (50/50 chance of living) and that my sister needs to be operated right away. My mum 'told' our 'lawyer' to get the cash, important papers, and jewellery inside the vault because they wouldn't operate without the money and other documents (given the "situation", not sure why my parents needed the jewelleries for the operation too?!)
Looking back, I was so relieved that my parents never told me the code to the vault. We would have lost nearly everything, and god knows what would have happened to our maid.
The scariest part? The caller knows an awful lot of information about us. He knows our surname, our first names, where we live, our phone number obviously, and the names of our mum's siblings.
Needless to say, my mum freaked the hell out and I felt so sorry for our maid. Ever since that incident, I've been really careful about the calls/emails/text that I receive. Our family also made a 'secret code' so we have something to use in case things go slightly out of hand.
Back to the main point of this post (and sorry for keeping it so long!) Be careful! Check everything before doing anything. In fact, it's now easier to verify whether something's legit or a phishing scam because you can see who and where it's from. Triple check the sources, ask and nag for info if you have to. Don't feel stupid for being "paranoid" because in the long run, it will only do you good. Better safe than sorry!
Have you ever been in this kind of situation?
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One time my dad got scammed because a woman called pretending to be from "Citibank". Now my dad had been waiting for a call from the bank for weeks prior because he transferred some money or something so he was really relieved and didn't think much of giving personal details to this so called "bank representative".
ReplyDeleteNext thing we find out is that someone had withdrawn thousands of pesos from his account to buy airline tickets. Thankfully my dad reported the incident and they were able to give him the money back. Now my dad's super careful about over the phone things like that!
Wow... This is crazy! Glad it all worked out though...!
ReplyDeleteWow, that sounds so awful! I'm glad everything was okay in the end.
ReplyDeleteIt's nowhere near as bad, but my Grandad got scammed over the phone, saying he needed to pay a couple grand to improve his computer and get the new windows operating system, which he just paid with no idea he was being scammed as they'd hacked into part of his system and found out some details, etc. The guy is in his late 70s anyway, so they obviously knew what they were doing, trying to take advantage of an elderly person. It's all so horrible! xo
What a scary story! These things re getting way more common these days. My best friend was scammed after she was promised a teaching job abroad. They asked for a £2000 deposit and back details to cover her equipment, books, accommodation, etc and just took teh money and disappeared. The website I saw for the company (and Facebook page!) looked so genuine, but it was a complete scam! Crazy times!
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This is a great post. I'm so glad everything turned out alright for your family. Scamming is more prevalent now than ever, as is identity theft. Nothing like this happened to me personally, but I have been the victim of attempted fraud; I must have used an unsafe website to purchase something, as my debit card number was used to try and purchase $300+ worth of merchandise. Luckily, a representative from the retailer called us to verify the order (I assume because the billing address didn't match the shipping address), and the order never went through. The person(s) responsible weren't caught, but I canceled my card immediately and I didn't have to file a claim, so it could have been much worse.
ReplyDeleteI also am acquainted with an entire family who were made victims of serious identity theft. They've lost so much and aren't even able to obtain cell phones, etc. It's really scary, and I agree that you can never be too careful (or too paranoid) when online or in other financial situations.
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This is the one reason I don't pick up phone calls from numbers I don't recognize. If you really want to get in contact with me, you will leave me a voice mail.
ReplyDeleteWhoa that is really scary! Do you know what number it is coming from? I would report it..
ReplyDeleteWe didn't have caller ID back then so we weren't able to do anything :/
DeleteYour family almost got victimized by what you called (in tagalog) is Dugo-Dugo Gang. I dunno why they're group was called like that. But yeah, they're modus were like that. They will call your house and will pretend somebody else's close to your loved ones and would pretend to be in desperate need of money and other valuables your family are keeping. Glad you guys didn't fell from their trap.
ReplyDeleteThat's terrible and I'm so glad your family made it out of that situation ok. My family has been scammed in the past and it was really upsetting because they took advantage of a time when my parents were really down on their luck. They've fine now but they didn't even bother to tell me until one day randomly in my junior year of college.
ReplyDeleteomg!! That's scary. Glad everything got sorted soon.
ReplyDeleteI had a situation where someone hacked into my XBOX Live account and bought $75 worth of Microsoft Points with my credit card and tried to transfer the points to their account, but they couldn't because I didn't have a Family account.
ReplyDeleteIt was a pain in the butt to sort out, but it sorted!
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OMGOSH. That is crazy, crazy scary!!!! The code word is a goooood idea.
ReplyDeleteI was almost a victim of one of these scams! It was around Christmas season and I was a freshman in college living in the back of my grandpa's laundry shop. So at night when the laundry shop was closed, I'd work somewhere near the front of the shop because there was free wifi in that area. Some guy on a cellphone was knocking on the glass door and yelling at me telling me he needed his coat. It was about 11PM that night and shop closes by 9PM. I told him I could not let him in because we were already closed. He kept yelling at the person he was "talking to" about being late and that I was being stupid cause I wouldn't let him in. He kept handing me a slip of paper which was his claim stub for his laundry. He told me he needed his coat which he had left to be dry cleaned. I took the slip and looked around, but the slip didn't match any of the laundry bags. At this point, the guy was harassing me to go faster. I got annoyed, and luckily the back area of the laundry shop has a door opening to the garage of the building next door. There is a security guard who works there at night to watch over the place, and I told him about the guy harassing me to open up the shop. The security guard then told me that our laundry shop doesn't do dry cleaning, and that he was trying to scam me to open up the store and rob the place. It was Christmas season and the crime rate was pretty high. The guard handled the matter and I locked myself in my room. Imagine if I didn't ask for help, who knows what that guy could've done?
ReplyDeleteDamn these scam groups!
wow that's scary! someone called my grandma once, pretending to be my brother, and told her he was in trouble and needed her to wire money. thankfully she didn't but it's freaky how much information the person knew about our family.
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